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Christmas 2019

Christmas 2019 began on December 20th at approximately noon and ended about an hour later.

It was so short and bitter sweet.

Hoping 2020 brings her the strength to undue all of the nasty lies that have stolen so much of our time through out 2019.

I certainly hope Christmas 2020 will have more family time for her and I

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